You say Imma bitch like it's a bad thing...
My boyfriend and I haven't been in good terms for the past few days. Partly because he's been replying less and every time he did message me I would start a fight because he thinks he's off the hook that easy. I admit I can be demanding when it comes to "hey I'm bored! drop everything and pay attention to me" kind of issue.
It came to the point that I threatened him that he will regret pissing me off.
He thought I was bluffing.
*baym*
He got disconnected on his yahoo messenger because I hacked into his account.
I've told him before I could easily guess his passwords and how to reset them. I guess he trusted me enough not to see that as a threat.
At first he was so pissed and he turned the tables around and made it look like it was my fault that we were going to fall apart.
and then I found an information.
Remember the ex-girlfriend I caught messaging my bf while we were in vegas?!?!?!?!? that slut!!! she's been emailing my boyfriend and there was this one email where she sent a picture of her in her underwear!!!!!!!!!!
THIS WAS JUST A FEW DAYS AFTER VEGAS! WHEN MY BOYFRIEND WENT BACK TO SANFRANCISCO. (vegas June 21, email June 29). I KNEW I SHOULD HAVE BITCHED THAT GIRL WHEN I GOT A CHANCE IN VEGAS. THANK GOODNESS I GUESS I HAVE A CHANCE AGAIN RIGHT NOW! AND I'M NOT GOING TO LET THIS OPPORTUNITY PASS.
Get your freak on. It's war time.
He was begging for my forgiveness.. But I couldn't just let him off the hook could I?
So I messaged my friend who is a close friend of the slut.
And I messaged the slutty girl.
To add it up, that slutty girl already gave birth few years back, and she just recently got married with the guy who got her pregnant.
I told my boyfriend's sisters.
I told my boyfriend's grandmother
and most especially I told my boyfriend's mother.
*yes, i triggered the mother weapon*
I am treated as part of their family so I just had to tell them about what my boyfriend has been doing. And I could even do worst.
Want me to post it here?????!!!
hmmm better! I'll post it in my facebook!!!!
nahhh im not that cruel, I'll just share it to a few friends.....
or BEST. I'll send it to her husband! and tell him to better watch her wife's underwear because it's getting mixed up with our clothes.....
I messaged the common friend who happened to be a school mate of me and my best friend.
I may be nice. But they also know that ever since in elementary, I could be a warfreak.
and I wouldn't care if I create a scandal.
GET THE WAR FREAK MODE ON.
To be continued.....
YOU EVEN HAVE THE GUTS TO SEND A FLABBY PICTURE OF YOURSELF!????
SHAME! SHAME
I really don't know why there are girls like her. I understand why you are on war freak mode...
ReplyDeleteOh I've said even worst things... I'm not really going to be at lost here since she just got married.
ReplyDelete*light bulb* ;)
I have many, many things to say. I still need to comment on your most recent post, however.
ReplyDeleteLet's see.
I can't even imagine what you must be feeling. This situation is beyond awful. Oh my goodness.
I don't know this woman, but my first response is, "What was she thinking/what is she trying to do?"
Those questions might seem to have obvious answers, but they really don't. Once again, I don't know this lady at all. AT ALL. HOWEVER, there's a very good chance that there's some sort of emptiness/huge void in her life that is causing her to behave this way. She has a husband and a child, but something's still empty or she wouldn't be all up on your man...
I don't know why I had to tell you that. But, I did. It's like .... I don't even know. I've dealt with A LOT of people who have done some things that society frowns upon.
All in all, you have a definite right to be angry. I understand.
~Zabrinah
Okay chick, this is NOT going to be the answer you were hoping for from me.
ReplyDeleteHow old are you? I'm guessing by this post, you can't be over 22 or so, and I don't mean that as a shitty remark- just a simple fact.
If your boyfriend SAVED this picture from June... somethings wrong in your relationship.
And IF you want this relationship to last, you NEVER NEVER NEVER involve his family is personal issues such as this! While you may be considered a part of his family... you are NOT blood.
Some bitch wants to call and tattle on my baby bro to me, well she's going to get a mouth full of how apparently she isn't doing her fucking job. And if she had the BALLS to call our MOTHER... it'd be on. If you called my grandmother to bitch about my brother... Oh dear god, I can't even explain that one.
On all accounts this is on your boyfriend for talking to her without your knowledge AND SAVING her fucking picture. You want to hate someone, hate him.
If you sent this picture to her husband... well that was a horrible thing to do. Literally, I can't even tell you how much that makes me ill.
Why is she a slut because she got married AFTER she gave birth??? BOTH my daughters have different dads. Mr. CB got married when I was 8 weeks pregnant with #2. If that makes me a slut... then so be it.
This woman shouldn't be sending pictures to your boyfriend, but you just did 100 times more damage to your relationship than she ever could have. And you possibly BROKE UP A FAMILY... And you are BRAGGING about it.
I don't know chick... not your best moment.
I've been there. At precisely your age. Except way worse things were going on with my boyfriend than just receiving naughty pics.
ReplyDeleteAnd I reacted almost exactly the same way you did.
My advice? It's not pretty.
End the relationship. It was already damaged by your boyfriend's keeping in contact with someone you, I assume, asked him to minimize the contact with. It has been irreparably damaged by your reaction. It will only escalate from here, and chances are, if it doesn't over this particular incident, it will over a different incident with another person in the future.
And, when you are a little older, I can guarantee you you will not be proud of your actions (I know I am not, five years later).
Keep your head up.
I would have to agree with Crazy Brunette. Yes, what they both did was not great. But what you did was even worse. Walk away. There is no repairing what you did with telling everyone and dealing with this in such a bragging, hot headed way.
ReplyDeletehey CB! i so appreciate you comment!!
ReplyDeletei want you to know... i have decided not to send the hubby a picture (even though jojo suggested she would.. lol)
coz yeah really i realized i didnot want to revenge. well maybe i do but more than that i want an assurance.
im not in the mood yet to make my contemplation post but i just wanted to thank you for the advice!
only regarding the family thing.. it's really different... because we are just not married but back in manila I lived in their house for months. the family ties, i really cannot explain in words. and he's not a little brother... he's the oldest child. the sisters really cant do anything about it except that I'd listen to them and what they would say.
to be honest his sister was one of those people who wanted me to send the picture.
there are really two sides in a story or even more! so i really appreciate your advice!
and the slutty thing. btw. i didnt mean that just because you got pregnant before you get married.
my OWN sister is a single unmarried mom.
yes i dont consider her a slut.
but if you do know the (girl's) past. which i cant just explain in my post because it will make it even longer.
just to clear that out! no offense intended on single moms! :)
As for everyone thanks and i appreciate your thoughts and opinions as well!!
ReplyDeletewill make a new post about my contemplations when im in the mood to write it all out. thanks again!
I'm sorry you're hurting and pissed. This relationship sounds rocky....I hope everything works out in the best of ways.
ReplyDeletexo,
Dani
www.okdani.com
I agree with Dani @ OK.
ReplyDeleteIt'll be dandy and OK
Hi
ReplyDeleteThis is awful and as promised i have posted an advice post to you here's the link
http://theboyfrienddrama.blogspot.com/2010/10/alice-help-i-want-revenge.html
I hope that at least some of what i have said is helpful.
Love
Alice X
hey trust me i know how u feel i was in a relationship with this guy for almost two years he lived in another state as me and we talked almost every nite but towards the end of our relationship we started to fight a lot cuz i wuld call him and he didnt answer so i called a few mins later and he would get mad we were engaged and supposed to get married this year i told him i was starting to not trust him cuz he would even ingore my calls late at nite too so we got into a big fight the one nite nd i called back and his cousin and brother told me that he was cheating on me and lieing to me i didnt want to believe it so i kept trying to fix things and then when it happened again i broke off our engament and left him. I know how you feel bout that other girl the best thing to do is to just let her husband know what shes been doing and keep your boyfriend on lock down but dont leave him and take him back more than twice it wont be worth it in the end unless he proves to you that he loves you and has you move in with him or at the very least by him
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